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Saturday, February 5, 2011

To Inform Or Not To Inform

I'm planning a trip.  Really, don't know if you got any of the hints I've done in this blog.  A big trip.  And what am I most worried about?  Personal security?  Missing my flights?  Getting sick?  Nope.

Telling my mother.

Yep, I just know there's plenty about this trip she's not going to like.  First, it was going overseas.  Well, she knew fairly quickly about that plan, since I told her I wanted to get my passport months ago.  Then there was traveling alone.  Really, I figured this would be a big one.  But I managed to tell her about that over breakfast one day.  And she was cooler about it than I thought.  I did say I'd have contacts in the UK just in case.

Then, last night, I'm talking luggage with her.  She's asking if I have a good rolling bag.  I tell her no, I don't want a rolling bag.  I just got a nice one that's soft-sided and converts to a backpack.  It's very light, which a rolling bag doesn't tend to be.  She's insisting that I need a rolling bag and also one that I can "add-on" to the top of, in order to tote all the stuff that she's sure I'll take (read: need.)  When I tell her I intend to only have my backpack-bag as a carry-on, no checked bags at all, she kinda freaked out.  What?!?  Why is this such a big deal?

I know, it's the right of all parents to worry about their kids.   But it's not like I'm 18.  Or even 24.  I'm in my 30's, for pete's sake!  I'm not idiotic!  I can do this.  That's the point, proving I Can.

I do wonder what Dad thinks.  He's rather quiet about it.  Easier to let Mom be her usual vocal self, I suppose.

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